Day 3: Shoulder-dancing in Aterow
The home we'd visited was only about 15 minutes from Aterow, Mulay's favorite camp. We flipped when we saw a mob of gelada baboons hovering near the site, but they ran away well before we got close.
Nina was now in a serious tizzy about getting to the Simien Mountains for her subsequent trek. Without the convenience of flying directly to Gondar, she needed to figure out a way to go by road. Mulay adored Nina and hated seeing her worry, so he left to make some calls at the nearest phonea good hour's walk away.
We were left with instructions for greeting our fifth group member coming from Lalibela. Jochen felt poorly and went to lie down. I alternately dozed in the fading sun and read Paul Theroux's Dark Star Safari. On a nearby boulder, Nina and Jodie jabbered extensively about their respective boyfriends. According to Mulay, we were a very fast group, thus we had loads of downtime each afternoon.
Conversation turned to the subject of divorce. Mulay told us it was very rare in the region, often because there aren't many other options out there, but also because breaking up a family when there's farm work to be done seems foolish. Yet, it turned out two of the cooks at this camp were divorced single mothers. One had even been divorced twice! Demurely, she told us that she didn't like the first one, didn't like the second one, but she was certain she would like the third one.
We needled Mulay about missing out on traditional shoulder-dancing the previous nightafter we'd been promised, and saw so many comments in the Wajela guestbook about it, please, Mulay, please! Laughing, he relented and said that even without the "expert" from Wajela, every Ethiopian was capable of shoulder-dancing.
Comically, Mulay first had the shy twice-divorced cook drumming a beat on an empty plastic oil jug, then dismissively deciding she wasn't good enough, quickly passed the jug to the giggly cook. She happened to have a sweet singing voice as well, so the music was completely taken care of. I couldn't figure out how she made up a song, or if she was singing something traditional: what words would I possibly sing if put on the spot to accompany a "traditional" American dance?
Mulay got everyone clapping along, critiqued the other staffers' dancing and then whipped everyone into a frenzy shouting along with his popping shoulders and snapping neck. He called us up one by one to try it out. Guffawing at each other's renditions, Nina and Jodie discussed the American reputation for dancing prowess.
"EVERYONE LOOK AT NANCY!" Mulugeta screamed over the music. "SHE'S PERFECT!"
But then Jess showed off her skillsdouble-jointed skills. The jarring neck pops and shuddering shoulders came naturally to her, and she managed to keep rock-still below the waist the entire time. It was a moment for ferengi pride.